Starting Therapy

What to Expect in Your First Session

Starting therapy can feel exciting and sometimes a little nerve-wracking. Here’s what to expect and how we’ll begin together. A safe and supportive space, free of judgment and held with full confidentiality.

As a psychologist, my role is to listen attentively to your story with care and respect. This is your space to share at your own pace and in your own words.

There is no “right” or “wrong” way to tell your story. Simply sharing it as you have lived it is enough. Being yourself is more than enough.

You don’t need to prepare perfect words or explanations. My focus is on being fully present with you, helping you reflect, and supporting you in making sense of your experiences.

The first session is not about quick solutions or instant results. Instead, it’s a starting point an opportunity to understand your background, emotions, and the factors shaping your situation. Together, we begin laying the foundation for meaningful work ahead.


Misunderstandings about the first sessions

Common Misunderstandings about Therapy

Misunderstanding: “I’ll get a treatment plan or results right away.”
Clarification: The first session is for understanding your story. The plan develops gradually.
Misunderstanding: “The psychologist will immediately solve my problem.”
Clarification: Therapy is a process — meaningful change takes time.
Misunderstanding: “If I don’t know what to say, it’s a failure.”
Clarification: Silence, hesitation, or scattered thoughts are all valid ways to begin.
Misunderstanding: “The psycchologist have to share my documents with government authorities.”
Clarification: Therapy records are private. They are only shared if you request it in writing, or if there is a clear legal obligation.
Misunderstanding: “The psychologist can read my mind.”
Clarification: Psychologists are not mind readers. We rely on what you share and our knowledge to support you.
Misunderstanding: “If I hide details, the therapist will figure it out anyway.”
Clarification: Therapy works best with honesty and trust. Holding back details may delay progress, while openness helps reach the best outcome.